When going out on a first date, the impression is what may leave a memorable print and make the other one feel the need of seeing us again, or it may be just the beginning of the end. Therefore, if you are really interested in him, you have to be very cautious and pay attention to all the details. Here are some proven tips that will allow you to leave that captivating first impression.
Be punctual. Do not arrive earlier, this shows how anxious or desperate you are. On the other side, do not come late, just five minutes after the set hour will be fine. Punctuality shows respect and responsibility.
Choose proper clothes. Depending on the hour and place you are meeting him, choose the proper outfit. Do not show dressed in sequins and feathers if you are going to drink coffee. Also, even if you are meeting at a nightclub or bar, do not overdo your sexiness. For instance, if you are wearing a mini-skirt, avoid a top that shows your cleavage. You want to be sexy, but not to be seen as an invitation for a one-night stand.
Wear makeup, apply some perfume and a nice hairstyle. Show you are a person that takes care of her appearance. Besides, he will know you are interested in him, you dedicated some time to look attractive for his delight. If the date is during date time, make sure to use a natural looking makeup. Leave dramatic makeup for night time dates only.
Be a good conversational partner. Do not talk just about yourself and tell him your whole life. Show some interested in knowing about him. Ask him about his life, but without asking about his properties, financial situation or professional goals. You may sound like a fortune-seeker.
Another important thing to avoid is spending much time talking about your past broken relationship. If you still have to overcome it, do it with a friend or therapist. Furthermore, let him time to ask you. Do not tell more than what he asks. Leave some mystery to be unveiled on a further occasion.
Seduce him with your look. Establishing visual contact is fundamental to making the connection. Of course, it does not mean you have to keep looking right into his eyes all the time. This could make him uncomfortable. Since our look can be one of our most seductive tools, make sure you have a fresh look.
Makeup your eyes to enhance their brightness. If your eyes are inexpressive, or you have a tired look, dare to use colored contact lenses. Colored contacts will enhance your look, give it more vividness. If you are really interested in captivating him with a sophisticated and enchanting look, try two or three tones colored contact lenses. They will give your look an unequaled brilliance and a captivating depth. There are colored contacts for dark eyes or light ones, so you can always use this wonderful cosmetic aid for a seductive look.
Smile. Smiling is contagious and relaxing, helps the other person feel comfortable and know you are having a good time. Smile at his jokes or worthy comments. However, avoid laughing out loud unnecessarily. Being happy, funny and having a joyful spirit does not mean being exaggerated. Remember you are a woman, be feminine and delicate.
Finally, do not put any kind of pressure on him. When the date is coming to an end, let him be the one to suggest another occasion, or just wait for him to call you back. You liked him, but you are not a desperate woman!